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DateSpot Matchmaking
Quality professional matchmaking for relationship-minded singles doesn't need to be expensive.
With DateSpot, you pay as you go. It's $195 for an initial call and one simple fee when both people want to meet. Pricing is reasonable, published, transparent, and the same for everyone.
When you join, you'll also get in front of tons of matchmaking companies at once. Through our strong relationships with them, we can leverage their databases by asking who they have. This means you get access to their members without the major cost if you were their client.
How Are We Different From Other Matchmakers?
Wider Reach
We use our unique partner network of 100+ companies to expand your match options.
Per-Match Pricing
Instead of a huge upfront cost, only pay for a connection. No contract. Opt out anytime.
Not Blind Dates
We share profiles with at least four recent photos to both people, ensuring mutual attraction.
Pricing
- Eligible to Meet Any Member
- Dedicated Proactive Search
- Video Call Vetting
- 2 Month Check-In Call
- Outreach To Partner Network
- Guaranteed Recommended Date
- Discounts on Optional Partner Services (Photo Shoots, Styling, Coaching etc.)
Specific Matchmaking Types
We effectively work with many different types of individuals. Unlike traditional matchmaking companies that focus on exclusivity and elitism, we're an inclusive service.
Here are examples of the groups we service:
- Black singles
- Christian singles
- Gay singles
- Indian singles
- Jewish singles
- LDS singles
- Lesbian singles
- LGBTQ+ singles
- Muslim singles
- Senior singles
- Spiritual singles
- Younger singles
Deep-Dive Video Call
Let's talk about your specific search so we can get to know you and provide the best matches!
For $195, meet with a DateSpot matchmaker (the Founder or Director of Matchmaking) over a 45 minute video call.
The call is required to be a Client as we need to personally know who we're searching for. If you just want to be a Candidate, it's optional. It's still helpful so we can personally get to know you, clarify your partner search, review photos, answer any questions, and make the best matches.
Once you book a call, a proactive review of options with current clients is included.
We look forward to talking soon!
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How We Match Members
We are extremely thoughtful about how we match individuals, combining research, tech and intuition. We collect a lot of data about members (without tiring them out) to efficiently identify compatibility.
We believe that your match is within 15 years and use that as a max range. We also think your match should balance you in personality and energy.
Here is some more of what we take into account:
- Personal TraitsWe can filter for any of the specific attributes we ask about in onboarding.
- EducationSimilar levels are common in couples, but we ask how important it is to you.
- Drinking habitsDrinking “socially” is too general. We break it down into five dimensions.
- Drug habitsFrequency of use & what you’re open to in a partner, broken down by types.
- Smoking habitsCigarette use is often a dealbreaker, so knowing this is crucial.
- Fitness levelHow frequently someone works out helps determine whether lifestyles align.
- PetsPets are a part of one's family and could be a major issue.
- Eating habitsAre you especially health-conscious or do you have any special diet?
- WorldviewHow optimistic vs. practical people are matter in life.
- ValuesWhat do you prioritize in your life - independence, family time, ambition, etc.
- InterestsThere should be some overlap, and we can filter for any hobbies you love.
- Religious viewsHow do you identify, how do you practice, and how important is alignment?
- Political affiliationWhat do you identify with politically, and how important is alignment?
- Love languagesHow people show they care through the 5 Love Languages is a factor as well.
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Testimonials
It was a breath of fresh air speaking with you today. You are a good egg and a hard worker! You're really changing the dating world for the better.
“It’s been a pleasure working with Carla and DateSpot! Carla is professional, personable and genuinely cares about finding her clients their forever person. She has a way of making her clients feel at ease and open up about what they’re really looking for in a relationship. Her creativity and use of technology also sets her apart from other matchmakers."
“I can’t say enough wonderful things about Carla! I’ve known her for several years and am always impressed by her poise, knowledge, compassion, eye for detail, connections, and kind heart. DateSpot is a fantastic community of exceptional professionals looking for that special someone. If you’re looking for love, Carla can help. She has an extensive reach and is well respected amongst her peers. She truly wants people to find their partner as well as to grow throughout their journey. Thank you Carla!”
"I cannot recommend Carla highly enough as a matchmaker. I've seen a couple other services advertised online and gone on dates with their clients, and I can say with confidence that the quality of the service Carla provides is in a league far and away above the others. I felt like she not only took a great deal of care to understand me, what I'm looking for, and why -- both in the beginning and ongoing -- but also that she is insightful and talented in actually achieving that understanding."
“The Matchmaker To The Matchmakers”
We want the best for you. If we think you'd be better suited to work with another matchmaking company, we're happy to refer you. There's no additional cost and no obligation. We want you to benefit from our experience working with hundreds of matchmaking companies and our intimate knowledge of the industry. You may even want to work with both of us to maximize your chances.
If you'd like an intro to another recommended company, email us at support@datespot.love, or book a 45 min. video call ($195) for a more customized approach. We look forward to meeting you!