Finally, Matchmaking For the ENM Community
If you don't want to fall into the traditional boxes of marriage and monogamy, DateSpot can help.
We find reliable, compatible partners who are flexible for open or closed group relationships - and we do it in a surprisingly affordable way.
What Is DateSpot?
DateSpot is a modern, affordable matchmaking company that works with people of all types. We don't discriminate and we believe everyone deserves love.
Traditional matchmaking companies don't take on ENM clients because their networks cater only to monogamous individuals, so they can't justify their normal rates or deliver enough candidates.
DateSpot is different. We have a wide network of ENM and poly people. Our matchmaking is purely pay-per-match.
As a Client, we see how your search goes. Beyond a one-time $195 video call, you only pay when there's mutual interest in meeting based on profiles with photos.
It's the easy way to find other open-minded people - whether it's for a season or for life.
Benefits of Matchmaking
Common Goal
We can suss out what people really think & do to pair you with the right match(es).
Compatibility
Professionals assess long-term compatibility across a ton of dimensions.
Privacy
Members can't access each other, and we selectively send profiles for approval.
Targeting
We can identify people who aren't yet into ENM but are open to exploring it.
Time Saving
Online dating and meeting people out is time-consuming - and you're busy.
Location Expansion
Apps center around one location, while we make expansion to other areas easy.
Who Is Matching Me?
DateSpot's Founder, Carla Swiryn, has been a professional matchmaker since 2014 and started the company in 2019.
She was born and raised in the San Francisco Bay Area - a place of openness and people pushing the boundaries of the norm - and lives there now.
Along with her team of exceptional scouts and matchmakers, she leverages her connections with people who are poly and open themselves to understand the needs of the community and leverage their networks as well.
She is happy to listen to your story and desires to help you reach your relationship goals.
Relationship Types
We do work with many people who want long-term monogamy, but we're completely inclusive and accept people who want any type of open and honest relationship type:
- Polyamory
- An open relationship
- An equal triad
- Polyfidelity
- Relationship anarchy
- Monogamish
Testimonials
I need a woman to be open-minded sexually, at least somewhat kinky, and open to the idea of being with others if we don't fulfill all our needs. DateSpot is proactively targeting candidates in a creative way for me that I wouldn't be able to do myself.
I'm so happy that DateSpot is accepting of people who don't fit into the traditional relationship structures and can focus on them.
I am non-monogamous, but I'm looking for someone to be very focused on and have children with. The logistics of finding a primary partner suitable for me are complicated. I love how DateSpot makes it easier and does that searching for me.
Pricing
As a client, we're focused on you, continually search for you, reach out to partners, individually meet candidates (by request each time), and provide feedback from first dates.
You pay just $195 upfront for the deep-dive video call. Beyond that it's a reasonable pay-as-you-go amount per match.
Deep Dive Video Call
If you'd like to work with us, let's talk about your search to get to know you and what you're looking for so we can make the best matches.
You'll meet with a DateSpot Matchmaker over a 45 minute video call for $195.
You can either create your account and then book the required call, or book the call first.
We look forward to talking soon!
Resources
Want to learn more about ethical non-monogamy?
Check out this helpful info.
Books
The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, & Other Freedoms in Sex & Love
More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory
Opening Up: A Guide to Creating & Sustaining Open Relationships
Podcasts & Videos
Podcasts:
Multiamory podcast
Polyamory Weekly podcast
YouTube Channels:
Multiamory
Sexplanations
